What
If Napoleon Hill Had Not Written Think And Grow Rich?
What would this world have been like
if Hill had not written that wonderful book? Think back to
all the successful people you know who have mentioned that
reading THAT book transformed their lives. Imagine if they
had never read the book i.e. it had not been written. The
implications would be multiple fold. Let's consider a few
examples.
Maybe today, Dr. Walter Doyles Staples
would not be the accomplished person whose works have been
a source of education and inspiration for thousands of people
worldwide. Robert Kiyosaki would probably not be the person
we know today, whose message about proper education of children,
and the need for a reform of our traditional educational system,
opened the eyes of many parents to what they can do to help
their kids succeed in life.
My point is that when people who undergo
useful/authentic experiences (or who make contact with those
who do so), write in order to share their acquired knowledge
with others, significant positive social development can quite
often take place as a result. This will happen especially
if those who read the written works, actually take action
to diligently apply the knowledge they acquire from doing
so in their personal lives.
You Can Change Lives Through Your Writings
By writing, we give others the opportunity
to embark, more intelligently, and therefore with greater
chances of success, on doing something we(or persons we closely
studied) have also done in the past and/or are still doing.
Anyone who has applied honest and diligent effort to a particular
cause, can write competently about what s/he has done in a
way that can benefit others who wish to pursue a similar goal.
While we are on the subject, have you
ever wondered why it is that millions of parents worldwide
have bought books by Robert Kiyosaki, and followed his advice
about how to educate kids/prepare them to achieve financial
independence, even though Robert clearly stated in the books
that he and his wife(Kim) had no kids of their own?
I have, and
the ONLY logical explanation for what should have been an
unreasonable action on that part of the parents is this:
They (wisely) chose to look beyond Robert NOT being a parent,
to the intuitive and common sense logic of the ideas he presented,
which resonated with those they had themselves battled with,
during their own childhoods. That's why when you read some
of the re-printed testimonials in Robert's bestseller titled
"If you want to be rich and happy, don't go to school?",
you will notice many of those people quoted said things like
"That's what I think";
"puts into words what I have
been thinking for a long time" etc.
When I read those commentaries/testimonials
by those who read the above mentioned book, I could not help
wondering if they would have ever gotten around to doing anything
about what they were "thinking" IF someone like
Robert had not decided to write it all in a book by himself.
Again, back to the questions with which I started this article:
What if Robert had never chosen
to write any of his books? One thing at least is certain:
our thinking about how children should be educated and prepared
to pursue success in life as independent adults, would be
worse off than it is now. That is the value that Robert's
writing has added to millions of lives the world over - mine
inclusive(the distance between our continents of residence
notwithstanding).
Many People Who Should Write Are
NOT Writing
In many societies, people daily undergo
unique experiences of all kinds, that those around them may
never have the opportunity of going through. For each person,
the learning acquired through those experiences literally
shapes who they become over time, and ultimately determines
whether or not - or better still how well - they succeed.
I am of the firm opinion based on the
above, that EACH one of us(if s/he were to make conscious
effort) can effectively draw upon the knowledge and insight
acquired through his/her unique, personal experiences, to
teach others how to deal with them successfully, should they
encounter something similar.
What I have just stated is the reason
why I am convinced we can never have too many motivational
speakers in the world. It is not possible to have too many
pastors, or preachers or trainers in the world either. I speak
with regard to the possibility of a situation arising where
you end up with many individuals who do the same thing in
exactly the same way EVERY time, so that if you have seen
one, you would have seen all the others.
No two motivational speakers can have
exactly the same audience appeal, and effect on people when
they speak. Think about it. When you hear that Zig Ziglar
is going to be speaking at an event you plan to attend, there
is a kind of expectation you have compared to what you feel
when another speaker's name is mentioned.
Each one of us has a distinguishing trait
or quality that sets him apart from others who do what s/he
does. Not matter how many stand up comedians perform on one
show, each ONE of them will always have at least ONE joke
that is different from those told by his/her counterparts.
And s/he will also have a peculiar "style of delivery"
that is unique to him/her - except of course s/he unwisely
chooses to mimic a role model, mentor etc.
If all of the above is true, it then
logically follows, that if an individual were to write a (non-fiction)
book or article based on his/her area of competence or experience,
there is a possibility that a person looking for such information
will find it a useful, if not entertaining, read.
It might help to inform (or remind) you,
that even Napoleon Hill was initially plagued with self-doubt,
when Andrew Carnegie first asked him to write the book(Think
And Grow Rich). Hill worried among other things that he was
not "qualified" or "competent" enough
- at the time - to write it. But thankfully, he eventually
brushed those fears aside, and did us all a favour by working
hard to write the book that today has changed millions of
lives for the better.
No One Needs A Teaching Certificate
Or University Degree To Share His/Her Experience-Based Knowledge
With Others Who Need It
I am yet to learn of a situation where
a person who - through great will power and endurance - survived
years of isolation as a prisoner of war was asked to get a
writing degree, or teaching certificate before s/he could
write a book or speak to audiences in seminars about (a)
what it feels like and (b)
how to survive under such situations.
At the least, if you feel you cannot
write it yourself, engage the services of a freelance professional,
who will work with you to produce a worthwhile summary of
your experiences in your chosen area of interest or competence.
Ultimately however, developing your writing skills would not
be a bad idea, as it would enable you do more spontaneous
writing than you could if someone was taking notes from you.
You Can Write While Still In The
Process Of Acquiring The Experience(s)
Incidentally we need not wait until we
have succeeded in achieving the goal we pursue before we write
for others to learn from us. For instance a person who never
won the gold at the olympics or indeed, who never made it
to the finals of the Olympic 100m finals could use THAT thought
to motivate him/herself to draw from his/her "failures"
and coach a younger athlete with potential to win the gold.
Taking this further, a person who has
"failed" in a bid to achieve a goal could, with
a positive mental attitude, articulate a set of learning points
about what caused him/her to fail, and use them to teach others(one-on-one
or through a book or article) about what to do to increase
their chances of success.
You do NOT need to wait till you become
the Managing Director of the company you work for, before
you begin to share the useful learnings about how to pursue
career advancement in a corporate organisation, that you pick
up along the way. This is because while you are BUSY "climbing",
others coming after you will be in the process of taking the
decision to START "climbing", and compared to you,
will be LESS experienced or knowledgeable about what to expect.
Many of them are likely to appreciate hearing from you, up
front, some hints about what they will face during their journey,
and how you dealt with the challenges that cropped up, plus
what you think THEY can do to make good progress.
In my case, I am sharing insights gained
from my experiences as an entrepreneur, through writing articles
and books, and in daily interactions. I implore you to begin
documenting as much of your own experiences as possible. This
way, you can also become equipped over time, to share useful
learning with others, and make their journey less difficult.
No one person has the duty of teaching
others about how to succeed in life. Every one of us can teach
what s/he knows to those who need to know it by writing about
it. The best part is that once you've written it, you will
not need to write it again. All those who want it will only
then have to go to the bookstore or website where it is available
and get their copy.
I Found Supporting Evidence That
"You Need To Write", In Dr. Spencer Johnson's Book:
"Who Moved My Cheese"!
Who better to tell you what it feels
like(or takes) to survive as a start-up entrepreneur, if not
someone currently in the struggle – or recently out
of it? If you wanted to get an authentic update on the socioeconomic
situation in Nigeria, would you ask your “Professor
Uncle” who travels once-a-year to Lagos on official
visits – or would you ask your Aunt who lives in Lagos,
and visits New York on business every other month?
The foregoing is why I chose to write
about my experiences early in my entrepreneurial career, and
not wait till I get “up to the very top” before
doing so. But I got even more convinced that this was the
right thing to do, when I read the little book titled “Who
moved my cheese?” written by Dr. Spencer Johnson.
The Book's Parable About Hem &
Haw(2 little people) As Well As Sniff & Scurry(2 Mice)
The book narrates an engaging parable
about 4 characters - Sniff and Scurry (2 Mice) and also Hem
and Haw (2 little people). The parable illustrates the various
ways different people react to unexpected changes/setbacks
that occur in their lives on a daily basis.
In admonishing us(readers) to learn to
laugh at ourselves, and the mistakes we make in life, (so
as to be able to learn from them and “move on”
with our lives), Dr. Johnson uses the analogy of “moving
cheese” to illustrate how our circumstances/situations
in life will inevitably change. The moral of the parable is
that we all need to be prepared for those changes when (not
“if”) eventually they occur. If we’re prepared,
and we respond quickly and intelligently to them (instead
of protesting and complaining), we will often find that we
end up being better off in the long run.
Dr. Johnson takes the reader through
a series of scenarios in which the 4 characters employ various
methods to deal with the unexpected changes. The 2 little
people – Hem and Haw – unlike the mice, had major
problems getting over the setback (not surprising is it? A
typical human reaction!) and moving on with their lives. Hem
in particular remained adamant that it was “unfair”
for the cheese to have been moved – and prevailed on
Haw(who over time became more disposed to trying to find a
way out of the fix they were in) to stay with him till things
“returned to normal”, or “someone gave them
an explanation” for moving their cheese.
Remember! It’s a parable, and if
you think back to our lives as humans, you should’t
have much problems recalling those occasions when you’ve
been a complainer. Sometime in the past(or possibly even now)
you may have been just like Hem – who never saw any
good in a change that affected you(in your opinion) “negatively”.
An example of such a change is a lateral movement from your
job to another seemingly less glamorous one in your company.
Lest I reproduce the entire book here,
I will get straight to the point I wish to make. At a point,
Haw decided that since the mice had taken off in search of
another cheese almost immediately the initial cheese had moved,
he would do the same. So, he left Hem, (after trying without
success to get him to go along), sitting and complaining,
and began his search.
"Haw" Starts Writing
To Share What He Learns BEFORE He achieves Success
As he journeyed, he made a lot of new
discoveries, gaining new and fresh insights that excited him
a great deal. In fact, he found the learnings he picked up
while trying to find new cheese so profound that he
decided to write each learning on the wall(in form of a short
phrase). This was so that
anyone who was coming along after him, would benefit from
the knowledge he had discovered.
Examples of the phrases he wrote are:
“If you do not change, you can become extinct”;
“When you move beyond your fear, you feel free”;
and “Imagining myself enjoying new cheese even before
I find it, leads me to it”.
I have chosen to adopt the method used
by Haw, by writing to share my experiences so far, for the
benefit of others who might wish to also go into entrepreneuring.
Even before he found new cheese, Haw began to share the little
knowledge he was picking up along the way/during the journey.
He felt (quite rightly too) that there was no point waiting
till he got to the “end” of his journey, and found
new cheese, before he shared the little he already knew. This
was because he recognised that he was experiencing useful
– though sometimes painful - lessons that could benefit
others tremendously, if they knew them before facing similar
challenges.
Summary
I personally believe that it takes strength
of character - and tremendous self belief - to repeatedly
make out time to share painful lessons learnt(through writing,
and/or speaking), in the pursuit of a challenging goal(s),
especially while still working to achieve it(them).
Another lesson we can take away from
Dr. Johnson’s book, is that we can each move our own
cheese(become “masters of our fate”), instead
of waiting for others to do it for us. Nearly five years ago,
I chose to move mine by leaving the comfort of what should
have been a comfortable job in a corporate organisation, to
follow my longstanding vision of running my own businesses.
I also decided that I wanted to spend much of my time, sharing
with others about how to do the things I have achieved in
various areas of my past, present and future endeavours.
We need to share information/knowledge
and discoveries about life, and how to live it better, with
each other. We need to do so regularly, and with plenty of
excitement and passion. Our actions in this regard must be
borne out of a genuine desire to enrich the lives of others,
and help them get ahead like we are doing.
The result would be a society in which
mutually beneficial exchange of information takes place among
people in a way that enhances social development, making life
more fulfilling for every member. A society where this happens
continually, and spontaneously, would be a very successful
one. Many developed countries are already
on the path toward attaining this futuristic state.
Developing countries which desire to
achieve similar progress, will need to challenge MANY MORE
of their members to write MORE OFTEN(give more public speeches,
seminars, practical workshops, coaching programs) based on
authentic experiences they have had, that would empower others
to succeed in pursuit of their life goals.
Writing is a powerful way to communicate
useful knowledge acquired through years of experience and
sometimes painful effort by the writer, to others. Any society
that wishes to develop fully, in all aspects of the life of
its people MUST encourage her members to write - and read
- as frequently as possible(especially non-fiction).
You can play a role today in the development of your
own society, by deciding to go out and acquire qualitative
experiences in the pursuit of challenging, worthwhile goals,
and then writing to share what you learn with others.

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