(This article is one of twenty-five(25)
contained in Tayo Solagbade’s Ebook titled "25
Articles/True Stories On Self-Development, Entrepeneuring
& Web Marketing To Help You Succeed More Often")
No enterprise worthy of accomplishment
would ever begin, if all obstacles
were first to be overcome – Napoleon Hill
In attempting to help you come to your
own decision about the better of the two options mentioned
above(quitting your job vs. starting part-time), I will give
you an insight into how I entered into the business of entrepreneuring.
I start by reproducing the exact words with which I narrated
the experience in an ebook I wrote back in 2003 titled “How
To Help Your Child Discover His/Her Purpose In Life”
(click the preceeding title/link to read an article based
on the ebook).
“I struggled
for over 6 years like I said trying to find out
why I felt so dissatisfied working as a well paid
young manager in a large, blue chip corporate
multinational. Despite rapid advancement and numerous
opportunities plus the promise of even better
career options, I still found I was dissatisfied.
So it was that right till the last 2 years of
my stay as a Manager in Guinness Nigeria Plc,
I continued to baffle family/friends with my frequent
trips back and forth between Lagos, Benin, Ibadan,
Portharcourt and other places.
I was variously following
up advertisements for new jobs, opportunities
for new starting up businesses, and possibility
of getting admission to study overseas(I just
KNEW I wanted to spend my time doing something
other than the job I was being so well paid for!).
I attended many seminars on wide ranging topics
from manufacturing to computer/internet education
etc. Then I sought out those who I heard had "made
it", and who offered themselves for consultation.
I asked their advice on what to do. Slowly but
surely, I began to gain insight.
Gradually
the picture became clearer. Not long after –
in late 1999 to be exact, I had the full picture
of what I wanted to do in life clearly mapped
out in my mind. But by then I was already 29 years
old! Then I spent 2 whole years “preparing”(attending
business startup seminars etc) before finally
taking off fully! Having gone through all that,
I am now thoroughly convinced that I could have
done better, if only I had known much earlier
that I had the option of deciding whether or not
to go into paid employment.”
- Excerpt from
the ebook titled "How
To Help Your Child Discover His/Her Purpose In
Life"
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Now, the truth is that by the time
I decided I wanted to run my own business, I was not sure
exactly how I would start.
I knew I wanted to go into some form
of speaking-training consultancy/educational work but I was
not sure how to begin. Also, I knew that it would be useful
to have a creative slant to my business offerings(building
on my proficiency in custom
spreadsheet programming/solutions development), so as
to generate a diversified income stream. It was with these
ideas in mind that I began attending all those seminars/courses
over the two years before I quit my job.
I however did not just attend them
and go back to my job to continue work. Being naturally action
oriented, I went ahead and launched mini-versions of some
business ideas I had settled for. They were Sealed
Nylon Packaged Pepper production and Custom
Branded T-Shirts Production (which I came up with by
myself after doing some thinking). While on Annual leave,
I then used practically all of my leave allowance from work,
to run these micro businesses on a test basis.
It was tough, but I gave it all I had.
In each case, I made little or no income, but the excitement
of doing it all - printing ID cards, drafting sales letters/looking
for buyers, designing T-Shirt labels, using an impulse nylon
sealer to pack cartons and cartons of pepper (overnight sometimes!)
served to give me some degree of satisfaction that it had
been worth the trouble.
However, when I returned to work, the
challenges of meeting my job as an employee soon made it obvious
that I could not combine running either of the businesses
with doing my salaried job. This was at a time when I was
still a shift brewer, and as such had the advantage of getting
off duty rest periods on weekdays, which I tried to use to
pursue my micro business efforts.
By the time I was promoted in year
2000 to a normal, routine 9 - 5 job as Technical Training
and Development Manager, I lost the little freedom I had left.
For close to one year, I tried to see if I could endure the
change and the restrictions it had imposed on me, but soon
realised that it would not work. So, I printed off and signed
a fresh copy of the resignation letter I had presented to
my former boss(who had rejected it back then) in 1999, while
I was still a brewer , and handed it to the head(Operations
Manager) of my brewery in his office on 31st October 2001(giving
2 months notice).
It's been over four years now, since
I quit my job to start my business - and
I remain fully convinced that I took the right decision.
This is(among other reasons) because, I have grown tremendously
in ways that I could never have achieved had I still been
tied to a 9 to 5 job. In addition, I look forward to doing
my work on a daily basis, with an excitement much greater
than any I ever felt while in paid employment. The feeling
of liberation - being able to pursue what you have always
dreamt of achieving beats description. The following quote
I think describes what I believe I have achieved:
"Free yourselves
from the shackles of corporate life" - Anon
Most people
in paid employment will not be able to understand what I have
said in the above paragraph. For instance, sometime
last year, I visited the office of a former senior colleague(who
still works in the HR department of the company I left) to
get a reference. He told me "Many
people still think you must have been mad to do what you did".
My response was along the lines of "My
only regret is that I did not do it sooner!" -
and I meant it.
While driving back home that day, I
thought about the conversation with my HR manager "friend"
and could not help feeling a bit sorry for him, because I
knew from the way he said it, that he agreed with those who
had questioned my sanity in quitting my job. The
sad reality however is that whether they accept the inevitable
reality or not, they WILL have to go through the same process
of "leaving" their jobs one day. When that
happens, they will have to - like I did - "re-educate"
themselves all over again to be able to survive in the real-world,
outside the security of salaried jobs they have gotten used
to. This is likely to happen when they retire, or have to
resign.
The only difference will be that when
they are starting up their own businesses, they will probably
be past their prime in terms of age, maybe in their 60s. This
may or many not present problems when they have to endure
the adversity frequently encountered in the business startup
phase.
As for me, I am glad I did it while
I still had a lot of my youth on my side. At 31, I quit a
job that paid well, but made me feel unfulfilled, in order
to start one that I get excited about everyday regardless
of the challenges I face in doing it. If
you also want to experience true happiness, you will have
to do likewise i.e. follow your heart!
Interestingly, doing what you love
WILL ultimately bring the ONE benefit(money!) that many people
always seem to want to get first. That's why Marsha Sinetar
said:
"Do
what you love, and the money will follow" - Marsha
Sinetar
A Question That Can Help You Choose
A Business To Start
One of the most important questions
that a person who wishes to choose a business to start needs
to be able to answer is this:
What is that thing, which
you would ENJOY doing for an UNLIMITED period of time, EVEN
if you did not get paid to do it?
I found MY answer to that question
quite easily, and that made it easy for me to continue happily
working towards achieving my set goals in spite of countless
rejections and setbacks. You are reading this article, at
this point in time, because I chose to follow my heart and
pursue my vision.
You will need to do the same if you want to achieve sustainable,
authentic success.
"If you don't
do what you love, you won't have what it takes to stick with
it. This lack of effort will cause you to fail. And fail big
time" - Michael Boss
How
Other Entrepreneurs Started Their Own Business
1. Quitting To Start - The Risky Way!
a.
James R. Cook(Author, Startup
Entrepreneur, New York Times Bestseller) did what many considered
ill-advised and unthinkable. He simply quit a good job brimming
with promises of career advancement. In his book, "The
Startup Entrepreneur", he explained that he did
so in order to apply Napoleon Hill's suggestions that the
person desiring success "burn all bridges" - admitting
that not everyone has to follow the same route as he did.
b.
Henry Ford explained that
after discussing with his wife, he chose to reject the offer
to make him general superintendent of The Edison Company,
if he stopped work on his gas engine project to focus on what
they considered "more important" work. Left with
no other option, he chose to leave his job(on August 15, 1899)
rather than give up his automobile business idea. An interesting
note added by Ford is the fact that aside from money spent
on sustaining themselves daily, he and his wife put every
penny they had into experimenting on the automobile, in the
hope of making a breakthrough. That willingness to risk financial
ruin, would later yield multiple fold returns. Every
single person who drives a car today, should be grateful to
this couple for refusing to quit!
c.
William Lear opined that
if a person is really sure about his business idea, he should
mortgage every asset he owns to keep going. Using himself
as an example, he explained that at one point, during a difficult
time in his business, he felt like he owed more or less everyone
in the country.
d.
Fran Tarkenton also wrote
that if you find it difficult starting your business while
still in paid employment, seriously consider quitting in order
to force yourself to focus better. BUT he also gives what
I truly believe is a very VALID warning that in doing this:
In quitting, you MUST make sure your family's security is
not jeopardised by the possibility of your business struggles,
preventing you from playing your role as a parent or spouse.
2. Moonlighting
-The Safe(?) Way
Some people might prefer to test their
ideas on the side while they hold on to day jobs as employees.
Lucky history shows that a number of people succeeded in starting
their businesses this way. George Eastman for instance, who
founded the Kodak company, remained in employment while he
tested ideas for his film business.
I have also read articles on how Moonlighting
techniques(where a person in paid employment launches a semi-entrepreneurial
career on the side in his free time from work) can be successfully
used by individuals keen to try out their business ideas.
In fact there is a growing trend today
of people who start businesses which they engage third parties
to run , while they(the owner) remain in paid employment.
So, Which Is Better?
In my opinion, the degree of success
achievable in meeting client or customer needs by a person
who starts up via moonlighting, will depend to a great extent
on his/her level of commitment. This is especially because
the demands of a routine 9 to 5 job can, for instance, limit
a person's ability(via late hours at work, and/or fatigue)
to meet the expectations of a paying client or customer.
Then there is the issue of the type
of business a person decides to startup on the side. If a
person decides to start up a piggery or catfish business while
employed on a full time salary job, s/he might struggle considerably
to get a good feel of what it takes to manage the actual production
process. A likely reason would be his/her inability to visit
the farm as often as would be needed(due to day job work demands)
to gain the needed "depth" of understanding. This
could have implications for cost-effective and profitable
operation of the business, as s/he might end up having to
accept anything s/he is told by the hired hands.
Having said that, employing a competent
manager to run the operation could
reduce the need for worry in this area. I will however add
that in the society I operate in as an entrepreneur, you would
have to keep both your fingers and toes crossed at the same
time, if you choose to go that way. A
hint: Finding competent hands over here is one thing.
Finding competent AND trustworthy
ones can be another issue entirely!
But the truth about it is, no matter
how long you test your business idea on the side, you will
eventually have to take the plunge and launch out fully. In
reality, many people never get to a point when they can muster
enough courage to do that, giving various excuses. In the
end, their employer helps them take the inevitable decision
- and even then, they are seldom prepared!
So, on the issue of which option is
"better" , it is my considered
opinion that most of those who take the "risky"
route of quitting the security of their jobs, or "burning
their bridges" are likely to emerge as better rounded
entrepreneurs, capable of building businesses that outlast
them. I say this based on my personal experiences as
one who tried both approaches, and also drawing from many
interactions I have had with business owners who followed
the "safer" route in starting up. The mental attitude
of people who belong to this latter group can be surprisingly
different from that recognised as typical of persons considered
to be "entrepreneurs".
Specific
scenarios include: how they see adversity(and the benefits
it offers); their disposition towards risk-taking for the
purpose of seizing business opportunities in the market place;
and their capacity to visualise the future. In each of the
three scenarios highlighted, I have repeatedly noticed that
the "safe way startup" business owners frequently
prefer to keep things as they are, never wanting to take any
chances trying anything new - until they have seen many others
do so successfully.
Seldom are they ready to be the ones
leading the pack in visualising what next to do. And in some
cases, there was a striking readiness to compromise their
values (sometimes just "a teeny little bit") in
the face of opposition, in order to get what they wanted.
This suggested the attributes of
"integrity" and "persistence" were not
strong points for them. I must add here that you could
not easily deduce this from what they said, when invited to
speak, or discuss on the subject. It was very often from the
things they did - actions they took daily, yearly in relation
to moving their businesses forward, that you saw real evidence
of that they actually "believed".
In contrast, many successful entrepreneurs
who followed the "risky", thorn filled path, have
described how the long drawn periods of "suffering"
they went through, helped them developed the "character"
and "survival instincts" necessary for achievement
of sustainable long term successes.
Quite a number have been described
as "stubborn" or even "obstinate" - attributes
which probably enabled them successfully defy adversity and
opposition in the past to achieve startling successes. Entrepreneurs
often believe they can always get what they want -if they
stick with it long enough. Hardly
will you find a true entrepreneur willing to cut corners in
order to reach a valued goal. Apart from having a strong
sense of integrity, the exciting prospect of defying all odds
and opposition to reach the prize, would be simply too attractive
for him/her to pass up.
Don't get me wrong here! I am not implying
that a person who did not quit a job or do something "risky"
to start his/her business is not an entrepreneur. What
I am saying is that a serious possibility exists, that those
who start by holding on to the "security" of a life-line
in form of a "job", or other comforts, may end up
not undergoing the full myriad of "educative" experiences
needed to mature fully as entrepreneurs.
You can read my article titled Avoid
Taking Lessons On Entrepreneuring From The Wrong Person(s)
to learn more about why I believe NOT every business owner
can be called an entrepreneur.
"You cannot
acquire experience by making experiments. You cannot create
experience. You must undergo it." -
Albert Camus
"It
had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment
rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out
and happened to things." - Eleanor Smith
Summary - The Choice Is Ultimately
Yours To Make!
From reading my story, you will find
that I did make effort to try juggling my new interests with
the responsibilities I had as an employee, but with little
success. In order to avoid destroying my credibility in my
workplace by having divided loyalty(and also to ensure that
I was more efficient in the use of my time and efforts), I
chose to take an honourable exit from a company I had served
for seven(7) years, while the ovation was still at its loudest.
That was one of the reasons why the
overall head of the brewery where I worked, was able to say/write
wonderful things about me (at the send forth ceremony organised
for me, even though I had only reported indirectly
to him for about 11 months) including the following:
“Tayo, I honestly
believe you are one of those who will succeed at anything
he does. Your commitment and effort has been outstanding....Thanks
for all your hard work since I’ve been here - you will
be sorely missed. I don’t need to wish you good luck,
you have the ability to make your own luck. - Andy"(R.
Jones)*
*Operations Manager,
Guinness Nigeria Plc Benin Brewery, December 2001(Handwritten
comments in farewell/xmas cards sent to Tayo Solagbade following
his resignation to start his own business).
My study of the writings and lives
of many entrepreneurs in some cases support this option(i.e.
quitting your job), while others lean towards the other. It
is up to you, to consider the examples provided through this
article's narration of what others have done(coupled with
its analyses), and then come up with your own decision. 
Twenty years from
now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t
do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade wind in your
sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain
Related Articles:
1.
When I Quit My Job, They Called Me Mad - And I Felt So, So
Sorry for Them!
2. Why I Do What
I Do The Way I Do It
3. Avoid
Taking Lessons On Entrepreneuring From The Wrong Person(s)
4. Practical
Guiding Philosophies For Entrepreneurial Success
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